No wonder so many myths and stories concerning romance between the male and female towards each other have been written as inspired by that of the Middle Ages. Often times we attribute to people chivalrous qualities to men, and ladylike manners to women. So often do people forget that many of the things we believe about ourselves and the word around us were largely formulated in the Middle Ages. These Medieval Times saw the blossoming of Courtly love.
Whereas today when most males contact a girl that they are interested in, it is usually done by some informal and even pushy manner. A guy make ask a girl out on a date or for a way to contact her as a form of pursuing her.
In the Middle Ages, Knights wrote poetry about the ladies they courted. They would frequently send a sonnet to win the heart of the woman they courted.
So as I was at Mckay's bookstore some weeks ago, I was surprised to find a book in the poetry section that I had never heard of. It was in fact one of the most widely read romantic works from Medieval Times. It was called the Romance of the Rose, and it is a book I plan to read soon. The book was written by Guillaume de Lorris, an author that we today we know little of.
The French Poet Capellanus, was clear on guidelines to courtly love. Capellanus was a 12th century French poet of some notable French works of courtly love including The Art of Courtly Love.
One of the things that came to my mind when I recently learned about how knights would write sonnets for the women they loved, is that people use to put their minds more to work as concerns literary things than do many today. Indeed, how much easier it is for many today to chat on date nights and watch movies then write poetry of each other. Our world brags so much on education yet has lost so much sight of it, especially as concerns the arts.
Anyhow, those were just some of my thoughts. Share yours on this topic of courtly love below if you so please!
The Romance of the Rose by Guillaume de Lorris is on my reading list within the near future!
Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely hind, a graceful doe. Let her affection fill you at all times with delight, be infatuated always with her love. -Proverbs 5:18-19
Romance of the Rose has a movie version starring Sean Connery. A great movie. Romance languages, middle ages, ah hah!
ReplyDeleteOh wow Ronnie I never heard of it! Thank you!
DeleteGreat post, Josh! Very interesting...what a beautiful title, "Romance of the Rose". You know I've always loved poetry! I may have to read this one as well! :)
ReplyDeleteIndeed sis!
DeleteIt was originally written in medieval French. I used to teach a course on early French literature, and this sort of topic caught the imagination of my students, especially since courtship and love were pursued under the banner of Christian purity, chivalry and idealism. You might also enjoy the story of Tristan and Iseult (an earlier "Romeo and Juliette" type)
ReplyDeleteThanks Pete! I did not know you taught French Literature! That is pretty cool.
DeleteIndeed, and let us not forget the many love poems of Chaucer! I will make sure to read that as well!
Another excellent and interesting post, Joshua! I remember my British Lit. teacher also covering this topic. One thing I always thought was interesting is that "Courtly love" was also rarely Romantic; it was the chivalry, honor, and service of a Knight to his married Noble Lady. I agree with you! We have lost a lot of dignity and honor in relationships these days!
ReplyDeleteSure thing Ben! My, how far has society has lost such taste for beauty.
DeleteYes, romance can be a broad term for much more than we often think of it.
True Romance at its best❤️🌹. A lot different from what many consider romantic. Ty Joshua job well done!
ReplyDeleteGlad you enjoyed!
DeleteVery, very interesting post concerning courtship. It reminds me of Isaac and Rebecca and Jacob and Rachel. A man did not pursue a woman until he knew he was ready to marry here. The he pursued her relentlessly. Thanks for the quote by Chaucer also. Excellent post!
ReplyDeleteYou are welcome dad!
DeleteThis is beautiful, Joshua. Christianity is responsible for such respect between the sexes as made popular during this time. Great points; I had never heard of the recommendation you have. Thank you for being a modern day knight :).
ReplyDeleteAnd thank you for being a modern day lady Whitney. :}
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